After Sage’s passing, her parents discovered journals filled with selfreflections, her values, her hopes, all pointing to the fact that she was wise beyond her years. They found a quote of hers — “it’s a good day for a good day”. They shared this quote with Sage’s cornea recipients when they participated in SightLife’s anonymous letter writing program. They were pleased when one of the recipients wrote back and learned that he too was a believer in community and thoughtful acts. While there were some differences between Sage and the recipient, they seemed to be “kindred spirits” of sorts. Paul shared that one of the biggest lessons he learned from his daughter was patience. Paul said, “Sage had such wonderful patience with people – she always gave people a second chance and was curious, not judgmental. I learned that you really don’t know what someone is dealing with; you don’t know what is underneath.” Paul continued, “Since Sage’s passing, there has been a good deal of scholarships, programs, a dedicated Facebook page, and even a hashtag, all in her name. BUT the cornea donation was all Sage’s. That was HER gift. That was HER decision. HER idea. In a way, that act almost makes it the most profound.” Paul and Camille don’t see her corneas as a piece of Sage left on this earth, but as a continuation of her spirit, a continuation of Sage doing the right thing. ■ To learn more about SightLife, visit sightlife.org. 2022 SightLife Facts Last year, in the state of Montana, SightLife received 4821 referrals of death in Montana which resulted in 443 cornea donors. This potentially helped 886 men, women and children regain the gift of sight. This amazing feat could not have been accomplished without the help and support of the MFDA members. Thank you for all you do to help us with this mission. Sage had such wonderful patience with people – she always gave people a second chance and was curious, not judgmental. 16 Montana Funeral Directors Association
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